Showing posts with label mindset. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mindset. Show all posts

Thursday, January 23, 2014

ALERT: TO GET FIT, LEAVE THE GYM!


So lately I have been slacking a bit on #lifting. Don't get me wrong I love to lift but while on a two-week vacation, one traveling and the other in the Florida Keys I gave my body a rest. Normally, I would feel horrible about missing an ENTIRE TWO WEEKS at the gym. After all, wouldn’t I look like a beached whale at the end of the trip?

Well let me tell you a secret: you won’t look like one ;) In fact, when I did return from vacation and got back to work, I kept receiving comments, “Kel it looks like you’ve lost weight” or “Kel, you look good.” The reason I mention these comments is because prior to my return I was a little hesitant about my physique. After all, the most strenuous workouts I completed were leisure walks with my family! Talk about an amazing, restorative workout, seriously! .
 
My mom and sister walking on the Seven Mile Bridge in Marathon, Florida

The hiatus from the dumbbells and drone of the treadmill were bitter sweet. The second I let go of my guilt it was just sweet. “What? Kelley are you cra-cra -- you are a fitness professional – your job is to live and breathe the gym?!” The fact of the matter is I am human too, and honestly, a break feels great once in a while! In fact, I venture to say it is NEEDED, yes A BREAK FROM GYM ROUTINES IS NEEDED TO GET FITTER!

How can this be? Haven’t you lost strength? Haven’t you lost endurance? Yes, a little. But within a week I was back to doing my sprints up to 10.5 MPH and hitting the moderately heavy dumbbells. I know my strength will get back, and be even stronger. But what are ten, maybe twenty times more durable now is my intrinsic motivation and my own satisfaction of getting in a good day at the gym. I am back to a place of loving it again.

A little sweaty after sprints J!

In closing, I wanted to share the leg workout I completed yesterday (post interval training) We will just call this one Lactic Acid Legs! Inspired by fitness gurus Mike Davies & Jill Coleman, after jumping off of the treadmill I through this puppy together:

LACTIC ACID LEGS

  •         You will need at least one, up to three sets of dumbbells & a bench or box to step on
  •         Do as many rounds as you can in 25 minutes
  •     And an “ BRING IT ON” mindset J
Your tools for magic!

EXERCISE
REPS
WEIGHT
Alternating lunges
12 each leg
Heavy
Bulgarian split squats
13 each leg
Medium
Single leg hip raises (on your back, one leg in air and raise hip – rest weight on hips)
14 each leg
Light to medium
Single leg step up w/ squat at the bottom (when you return to floor)
15 each leg
None to light
Dumbbell deep squats (elbows to knees)
16 total
Medium to heavy
Wide stance deadlifts (dumbbells go down outside of leg – not in front)
17 total


Looking forward to an amazing 2014. Share with me what you do to restore your intrinsic motivation and success on your fitness endeavors on twitter @kelleyvargo or on facebook.

Have an amazing day!

Xo,

Kel

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

4 Must Know Tips to Get Your Six Pack


 I can honestly say (and maybe not the best training I have done) but I did not do any isolated ab work for my first few figure competitions and placed 1st and 5th (not too bad). The reality of it is your diet and weight training has a far greater impact on your washboard than any number of sit-ups, crunches, or hours on the “Ab blaster.”




 Let’s cut out the fluff and get to bottom of this…

1    Everyone has a six-pack. It;s true, you really do. If you were to strip away the layers of adipose tissue you would see a nice rectus abdominis (stomach muscle) that has that definition you hope to see in the mirror.

Sits ups will not get you a six-pack.Yes sit-ups will help strengthen your abdominus muscles (that is if you do them correctly – do not strain your neck!) but the reality is they aren’t doing anything to bring those muscles into visability. Think about it for a second. How many times have you seen the guy at the gym who has that tire around his waste doing sit ups everyday but nothing looks different? Sure hisstomach muscles might be in great shape endurance wise and utilize oxygen efficiently but do they look any different? Nope.  This is not to say you cannot do sit ups on your quest for your washboard, but it is saying if you only run and do sit-ups, you will not be washing your clothes anytime soon.

Abs are made in the kitchen. Okay, I know, I can be really cheesy but let’s face it, whoever coined this term was a genius in my eyes!  It’s true. Remember what we said about the tire?  In order to make this go away, we must alter our nutrition. Nutrition is about 80-90% of the task when it comes to optimizing our physique and performance. Start by replacing major starches such as bread, cereals, rice and pasta with vegetables, lean protein, and complex carbohydrates such as brown rice or quinoa.  To big of a jump? Cut out the soda, and stop drinking your calories!



A complete weight lifting routine will be  “bringin’ sexy “abs” back.” Yup, that’s it Justin Timberlake can help you get through a sweat sesh to get those abs. The reality of it is, you are training your core while you are training other body parts. This is especially when performing large movements such as squats, lunges, pull-ups, & push-ups. Of course like any fine-tuning you can do some isolation ab exercises to chisel them out a little bit, but the bulk of getting those ridges will be achieved through heavy total body lifting.

And there you have it, the quick and dirty on getting your six-pack to show. It’s not easy (let’s be serious if it was everyone would have one), but it’s not impossible! And next time you’re in the kitchen as yourself, will I be able to use my washboard if I eat this? J

Until next time, remember Abs are made in the kitchen and eat your lean protein!

Kel

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Master Your Mind with Dr.Jump, Shawn Myszka


If you haven’t been able to pick up on the theme of these articles, they all tie in an element of the mind. Whether it’s making it a point to go to the gym, choosing a salad over a sandwich or doing one thing you fear a day, all of these endeavors involve the psyche. One man who has mastered his own mind, and now is consistently helping others master their own is Shawn Myszka. Former bodybuilder and now known as Dr. Jump, Shawn is a strength and conditioning expert working with NFL players in Minnesota.


Now you might be saying what does an NFL coach have in common with me? The truth is a lot. Not only are we interested in our health, but if we can take something away from Shawn about the power of the mind, we are closer to becoming our best. I am constantly motivated and inspired when speaking with Shawn and I hope after reading this article you are as well! Let’s talk to Shawn!

KV: Being an elite athlete takes a lot of work. Reflecting on your training and eating now vs when you were competing, how do they differ?

SM: My life and the day-to-day of it is drastically different these days. During my bodybuilding days, everything was laid-out. I ate the same things at the same times each day (no matter what day it was…Christmas, Thanksgiving, my b-day, etc). I napped from 1:30-2:30pm each day. I did cardio to start the day at 7am. I trained at night from 7-9pm. I meditated from 5:30-6:30pm. It’s just the way it all was. I was a machine. Now, there is not very much structure nor could there be. Depending on the time of the year (like during NFL training camp/season preparation), I may be working 14-16 hours days.

Because of this, even though I try to take care of myself and my body as much as possible, I only get to train 1-3 times a week. I honestly don’t do any resistance training anymore on a frequent basis. Instead, I perform movement-based training so I am fully and physically prepared to be able to sufficiently demonstrate exercises/drills to my NFL players. That said, I could still get under a squat bar loaded with 4 plates on each side and rep it out…the function of my training (movement-based) has allowed me to keep a great deal of my former structure (muscle and strength qualities). My nutrition has changed significantly as well. There are days where I am busy training athletes from very early in the morning till very late at night with little to no break all day long. So, on those days I may get to consume nothing but meal replacement shakes and energy drinks (sorry I am not sorry!). Then there are other days, like right now when I am traveling to go from training camp to training camp, where I have to eat a lot while on the road. None of that would’ve led to as successful of results when I was competing but it’s the nature of the beast now and it still allows me to achieve the goals for my lifestyle because those are much different now as well.

KV: How would you say your mindset has changed from your days of bodybuilding to where you are today?

SM: You know, most people find it odd when they hear that my mindset really hasn’t changed all that much from my bodybuilding days till now. There is good reason for this. Any success that I ever achieved in any aspect of my life can be traced back to the way that my mind ticks. When people find out that I used to be a pretty big dude (5’6” and 275lb in the offseason constitutes as big right?), they automatically think that I must really like the way that muscle looks, etc. That’s not what bodybuilding ever was for me.

Instead, I just always wanted to be the best at whatever I could. I just happened to have a high aptitude for the sport of bodybuilding from a very early age because of what it required from participants. But my mentality is what made me. It’s the reason I was able to go a handful of years without a single cheat meal and the reason I was able to gut-check through injuries that would’ve sidelined most human beings. Thus, it (i.e. the activity) could’ve been chess or knitting or whatever…I was just always committed to going all-in with it if I was going to do it. Thus, when I retired from the sport I just devoted the same type of passion and energy into different avenues. This is the reason why I now apply myself with deliberate effort and intention on a daily basis to my current craft of producing the most masterful athletes in the National Football League. 


KV: Now having the opportunity to work with professional athletes, what is a fundamental mental training component you instill in them in terms of a successful mindset? Are there any similarities between the average person and the professional athlete in terms of the mind?

SM: I have found that among the 1,696 athletes playing professional football (53 on each team among 32 teams), there really is very little difference in their physical characteristics compared to one another. Instead, the thing that often allows the best to be better than the rest is the substance that lies between the ears and inside the chest.
Unfortunately, pro athletes are as susceptible as the rest of us to the negative self-talk that can ensue if we choose to listen to the outside world or just look for short-term gratification from any initial achievement steps being taken. They (the pro athletes) just happen to be able hide it a little better than others through their supreme confidence (otherwise known as swag).

That all said there are definitely similarities between the average person and the pro athlete when it comes to mindset. At least there needs to be if we are all going to be able to fully realize our goals and aspirations. On the surface, the average pro athlete may appear to be wired completely different mentally. Though it is true that they hit the sperm lottery when it comes to their physical capabilities, they often have the same mental barriers that they must overcome (as I alluded to above). Fortunately, we can all do something about developing a champion mental set. I work to instill this in them from the start. Our very first training session isn’t typically physical at all. Instead, he and I sit down and talk through who it is that he wants to be…without limitation. We are trying to remove every SINGLE limit off of him and out of his mind. Being realistic is the fastest way to mediocrity. Thus, I want to know everything he wants to achieve in his life in the sport (and sometimes outside of the sport as well). This is where one’s passion and energy is going to come from…his (or her) purpose. People with that level of passion have the opportunity to change their world. So I encourage them to verbalize these sometimes outlandish goals for their lives. They are only outlandish for those that don’t have any business achieving greatness in the world.


KV: Can you tell us a little bit about your morning, when you wake up, what is the first thing you think and do?

SM: This is a great question because I firmly believe as though people can significantly impact the outcome of their entire day based on the outlook that they start their day with. I also believe that an attitude of gratitude is the only one to have if we want to appreciate our current life situation as well as attract more great things into our lives. Thus, it may sound odd, but I start each day by first being grateful for me waking for that day, everything that I am on this given day, and everything that the new day will bring. I notice that if I go without doing this, I won’t have the mindset required to keep things in perspective as the day unfolds in front of me. I then go to reminding myself who it is that I am and what it is that I want to achieve (not for that day but for my greater overall vision). I will go as far as telling myself, for example, “today I will make the best players in the NFL even better. I have a unique opportunity in front of me to impact the world.” This all happens before breakfast so by the time I hit the road I am ready to conquer the day.


KV: If you were to give us one piece of advice regarding the power of the mind, what would that be?

SM: No matter how I answer this question it is going to seem like it is filled with nothing but clichés of sunshine and rainbows. But I have found (not only in my own personal life but also with my athletes) that there really is no way to overestimate the power of our minds and what we are truly capable of if we tap into it by possessing the optimal mental attitude. Thus, my own piece of advice is to never underestimate what you are truly capable of! You will need to truly see with your unique vision what it is that you want and you can have anything that you foresee in this life. You will need extreme, unwavering faith and belief that this can come true no matter what the outside world is showing you or what others are telling you. You will need to continue following the path of your vision and belief with total commitment even if you may fail temporarily at times. And when you reach and achieve what it is that you set out for, you can and should be proud but never ungrateful as well as never content for you should realize that it is part of something bigger for not only your life but for others as well.

On that note, never underestimate yourself! Get out there an take a step toward your dream today!

Have an amazing day! See you tomorrow,
Kel

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Face your Fears


I have always been a dreamer and at the same time, I have always been afraid. Afraid of what? Failure. And if I hadn’t crossed paths with Jill Coleman about 10 years ago, I have no idea what I would be doing now.

As the oldest of three, I have always been a perfectionist: straight A’s throughout my grade school and high school careers, class president all 4 years of high school, a national honor society member and valedictorian. I went onto complete my undergraduate schooling at Wake Forest University.  I remember Wake being my first “wake up” call.  I received my first C, and for a split second, I thought it was the end of the world. I spoke to my father, who was able to talk some sense into me. He asked me what if I had failed? Oh the “F” word made me cringe. He made me realize it wasn’t the end of the world, and after all, I wasn’t going to school to become the next Linus Pauling.

I met Jill the following fall while I was finishing up my morning workout. She was the new Fitness Director. I didn’t get much out during our first conversation (surprising if you know me), but she merely said, “Do you have a lifting partner? I will see you at 6:30 tomorrow morning.” I ended up living with Jill my senior year, and that was one of the best years of my life – filled with friends, fitness, and a positive mindset. But when it came to graduation, I felt fear creeping up on me. What the hell was I going to do?

The next three years I spent my life on a path driven by fear: I moved out to Arizona, attempted medical school, and the Peace Corps. I was so afraid of following my passion and concerned about living up to others expectations. There were many times I would call up Jill, and she would sound like the chorus of an inspirational song, “Follow your heart Kel, you know what you want to do.” She was right, I did know what I wanted to do, but I had no confidence that I could become an expert in the field of fitness. There was no guarantee of success with that move. (Fear and certainty can be huge dream suckers!)


Finally after some years of doubt, I met my childhood hero, Triple H (feel free to read that blog) who inspired me to take a chance. I immediately started applying to graduate schools for exercise science and was awarded a graduate assistantship. I faced my fear, score! Not so fast, the game is just starting and there is a whole lot more of fear out there. I was coming up to graduation for my Masters and was terrified again, what was I to do next? Ughh Ughh.. PhD? Um … I decided to enroll in another Masters program this one in Public Health with a focus on Marketing and Communication. And I love it! I have learned more in this degree that is applicable to most of what I have learned in my years of higher education .

However, the next challenge I am ready to face head on: believing in myself to take the next step. I know in my heart what excites me, what makes me happy, what gives a sense of purpose. I have been a “victim” of the rat race driven by fear and certainty, and I no longer want to be in it.



Life is too short, to live in fear and not do what we want to do. I have realized by following my passion, it is going to take work, setbacks, sacrifices, and days when I am like, “Is anyone out there?”  But I know that the pay-off is much better than living life for someone else’s expectations.

Fear will always be there, but how you respond to fear will determine your destiny: control it or be controlled!

On that note, do one thing everyday from here on out that scares you!

Until tomorrow,

Kel

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Why being THE best isn't a good thing


I have always had a motivated and driven personality. Whether it was in school, work, or training, I strived to be the best. Most people would say that is a good thing, striving to be the best, but I beg the differ. I think striving to be YOUR best and striving to be THE best are two different things.

When I was constantly striving to be the best, I found myself in constant anxiety or as a failure. I came to adopt an “all or nothing” mindset that set me up for failure almost every time. I found this mindset extremely detrimental when I began training for my first fitness competition. I was relentless on myself if I only got in one of two workouts for the day, basically I was a failure if I was only at the gym for 90 minutes instead of 120. I was a failure if I had a bite of anything off of my “competition meal plan.” Tomatoes weren’t on the plan, so no tomatoes here.

And then it came to the cheat meals on Saturday, you would have thought I was a starving child. I would eat until my heart was content, or my stomach couldn’t extend. All in that one meal. Feeling bloated and disgusted on Sunday, I would head to the track. Not taking overall in a show meant that I was a failure. It didn’t matter that I had gotten in to the best shape of my life, that I had inspired hundreds of people around me to be healthier, or that I had learned about myself along the way.

This vicicious cycle continued after the competition. I would guilt myself into spending 2+ hours or more at the gym everyday. If I wasn’t at the gym by 7 am I was already failing at the day. I was disgusted that I didn’t maintain my physique from the stage. I wouldn’t eat fruit that wasn’t on my former meal plan, I created these ridiculous standards of living that made it almost impossible to succeed.

I miss competing and I will get back to the stage, but this next time it will be a completely different person stepping foot on stage. This time I will have a balanced mindset. What does this mean? If I can’t fit in 2 workouts, I will realize it is okay. If I am out to dinner and I want a fry off of someone’s plate, I will have a fry. Not my own order, but a few fries.

So whether you’re thinking about competing, starting a new workout regiment, or a lifestyle change, release yourself now from the all-or-nothing mindset. How many times do we vow to start our new workout plan or “diet” on Monday? We slip up on Tuesday and then vow to start on the following Monday because we already “ruined” the week.  How ridiculous is this? Our health is a continuum, it doesn’t have days associated with it. Our body will not know if it is Monday or Wednesday, so you can release yourself of that! Rather, take things one-step at a time and practice moderation. If you miss a workout or eat a piece of chocolate cake, be okay with it, and move on. Do not associate your worth to a choice.

Strive to be your own best before being THE best. There are a lot of things that go on in life that are outside of our control, roll with it. Control what you can, and even if you slip up, be okay with it. Life is a journey and should be enjoyed!



Be your best today! Tweet me your thoughts @kelleyvargo

Xo,

Kel